Regrets...I think not.

I have been fortunate to have experienced relationships with some beautiful people (I do not use the term, 'beautiful' in the physical sense). I have also had the misfortune of being involved in some toxic relationships. I regret none of these experiences; each has contributed to developing my character.

Every experience provides me with the opportunity to learn a valuable lesson. It is important to maintain an open heart and mind, receptive to embracing new knowledge, as means of advancing understanding of myself and this world. I have learned the most about myself during the most challenging of encounters with others.

Lessons learned about myself:

• I sincerely like the person I am. This may sound trite, but it carries significant weight because when I explore the core of who I am, I see intrinsic integrity born from the values bestowed upon me by my family. Only I know what beauty and purity lies behind this skin, beyond this physical existance.
• I have no tolerance for negativity or immorality in my life. I try to expunge unconstructive elements from my temperment, and I absolve myself of associating with people who do not adhere to a principle-centred code of living, and who lack positivity. Life is too short to be miserable, and misery certainly loves company.
• We are all human. It is the sole commonality upon which we can all agree. As humans, we are subject to lapses in judgement, regardless of age, formal title, intellectual acuity, degrees conferred, or profession. I consider myself very intelligent; however, I am no less or human than any other, and have exhibited behaviour incongruent with my fundamental moral fibre. I strive so hard to adhere to the right path, and any cognitive dissonance is psychologically uncomfortable, resulting in the intense desire to atone for my transgressions. For example, I consider myself an honest person; however, I had to recently lie to a good friend for their protection. Ever since then, I feel compelled to share the truth behind my actions because I sincerely value this friendship. I embrace this unique quality.
• I wear my emotions on my sleeve and willingly accept responsibility for my decisions; this transparency has awarded me the respect of many valued peers. It also makes me more vulnerable to personal pain inflicted by unscrupulous souls. I am learning the art of balancing protecting my spirit and being true to myself. Despite being the recipient of manipulative tactics by those who perceive such transparency as weakness, I consider myself a stronger person if I can endure the offense and maintain my integrity.
• The best intentions mean nothing if not explicitly communicated.
• Perception is the reality people are most willing to accept because it's easier than accepting the truth.
• I am stronger than I give myself credit for. I have learned to accept my defeats with grace and that I can endure.